Vivian: let marriage happen naturally

Vivian was interviewed by Small S and talked a lot about her relationship.

The Hong Kong cable channel will be airing the Taiwan TV program "Hong Hei is Coming," which is hosted by Small S and Choi Hong Wing. Earlier (October 2004), they interviewed Vivian. Vivian was asked if it was because of Joe who made her decide to leave the entertainment circle. Vivian said this was absolutely just a rumor. It was her own decision to leave the entertainment circle, and Joe greatly supported her. She worked as an artist for 10 years and it seemed like she wasn't able to follow what was happening in today's society. She hoped to go on vacation and become an ordinary person. Who would have thought this vacation would last for 8 years. Although she left the entertainment circle, but when she walks on the street, there are still lots of people who recognize her and request to have a picture taken with her. She said the funniest moment was when a Japanese person had secretly taken pictures of her, and she politely asked him if he could give her the negatives, and he immediately gave it to her. Later after she developed the film, she kept her own pictures and then mailed the rest of the photos back to the Japanese person in Japan. When she talked about her relationship with Joe, she said she's very satisfied with the present stage. Although she won't resist to getting married, she still feels it's best to allow nature to take its course.

Vivian would let marriage happen naturally

Vivian went on a Taiwan TV program and talked without inhibition about her relationship with Joe.

Earlier (October 2004), Vivian accepted an interview for a Taiwan entertainment show "Hong Hei is Coming." This 'former Jade Girl Master' even openly talked to the hosts of the program, Choi Hong Wing and Small S, about her relationship with Joe. The program will air tonight at 8:00PM on the HK cable entertainment channel. During the program, Vivian revealed that she and Joe got to know each other in 1989 while working on a Radio Television Hong Kong (RTHK) program. At that time when they first met, they had a feeling like they were old friends. However, both of them were young and they were self-centered, and they put their careers first, so both of them decided to separate. Two to three years later, both of them didn't have another partner by their side and they still had feelings for each other, so they got back together again. Vivian also said, "I remember it was 1996 when we made our relationship public. At that time, I had just started to step away from showbiz and the magazine reporter had taken photos of the two of us together, so in this case, the matter is not something that needs to be kept secret, so we made it public. Now we're satisfied with our present stage in life. Although we won't resist to getting married, but we feel it's best to allow nature to take its course."

Going on vacation to rest; Vivian took a vacation for 8 years

Earlier (October 2004), Vivian accepted an interview on the Taiwan TV program "Hong Hei is Coming." During the program, she mentioned that her boyfriend had nothing to do with her decision to leave the entertainment circle many years ago. At that time, she just wanted to take a vacation, and yet her vacation lasted for 8 years. Regarding the current status of Vivian's relationship with Joe, she honestly said she's very satisfied and won't resist to getting married, but the most important thing is to allow nature to take its course.

Vivian reveals her reason for leaving showbiz

Vivian was interviewed by Small S. The two beautiful women respect each other.

Tonight at 8:00, the HK cable entertainment channel will air the Taiwan entertainment show "Hong Hei is Coming." The two hosts of the program, Choi Hong Wing and Small S, interviewed Vivian. During the program, Choi Hong Wing and Small S asked Vivian if it was Joe who made her decide to leave the entertainment circle. Vivian honestly said this was just a rumor which was inconsistent with the facts. It was her own decision to leave showbiz, and she had Joe's support. She felt that after being an artist for 10 years, it seemed like she wasn't able to follow what was happening in today's society, so she wished to become an ordinary person and live a normal life. An artist is always busy working, and everyday it's a tight schedule, but it's all the same, so that's why she hoped to take a vacation. But she didn't think she would be taking a vacation for 8 years. She had more time to spend with her family and friends, and that counted as a payback! Vivian revealed a very funny experience, saying, "There was a Japanese person who had secretly taken pictures of me. I then politely asked him to give me the negatives, and he immediately gave it to me. Later, after I developed the film and kept my own pictures, I mailed the rest of the pictures back to him in Japan." Vivian also talked about her relationship with Joe. She first met Joe when she worked on an RTHK program. They felt like they were old friends when they first met. However, both of them were young and they were self-centered, and they put their careers first. Even though their heart was giving consideration for one another, but at that time, it wasn't the best time for them to be together, so both of them decided to separate. Two to three years later, both of them didn't have another partner by their side and they still had feelings for each other, so they got back together again. Right now they're both very satisfied with their present stage in life. Although they won't resist to getting married, but they feel it's best to allow nature to take its course.

Cha Siu Yan and Jerry Lam Hiu Fung talked about Vivian appearing at Joe's birthday party.

Vivian was shy to give Joe a kiss when celebrating his birthday

Vivian let go of her jade girl image and gave Joe a kiss.

To celebrate Joe Ngai Jan's 41st birthday, the radio station especially planned a surprise birthday party for him two nights ago (4/26) during the "Cool Valley Best Matching Pair of Lovers Contest" event. Vivian has always been low-key. She came to the party that night in order to give her boyfriend a surprise. She fulfilled the request of the audience to give the birthday boy a kiss, which made her boyfriend smile from ear to ear. It's not certain if it's because Joe was overexcited, but on his birthday he unexpectedly talked about himself dying, which was very unlucky. Towards the end of the event that night, the other host of the radio program, Jo Kuk Jo Lam, suddenly disappeared. Joe has always been smart, and he already guessed what Jo was going to do next and immediately said, "She's going to roll out a birthday cake. Actually when I was working on my radio program last night, I already got scared when a group of people suddenly rolled out a birthday cake." He also joked that he died at age 43. Then Jo Kuk gave Joe a bicycle as his birthday gift. At this time, everyone got excited and told Vivian to go on stage. After Joe cut the cake, Vivian fullfilled the request of the audience to give her boyfriend a kiss. At first, Vivian seemed to be very shy and refused to give him a kiss, but when Joe pointed to his own cheek showing he wanted Vivian to give him a kiss at that time, she whined and said she would only kiss him once. Then she gave Joe a kiss, making her boyfriend have a big grin on his face. The radio station especially gave Joe a dragon-phoenix comforter (Chinese newlyweds use this on their bed) for two people as a present, hinting that they should hurry up and get married, and Joe just laughed. Later the reporter asked Vivian how she celebrated with her boyfriend on his birthday. She said before midnight, she arranged to celebrate together with the 5 cats that Joe loved the most, and with the two of them being the cats (Joe and Vivian thought of themselves as cats) who raised the 5 cats, there were a total of 7 cats cutting the cake together. The reporter asked her when they would be using the dragon-phoenix comforter. Vivian said she currently doesn't have any plans. Revealing that he was neutered to obtain his girlfriend's happy heart Joe honestly said that his birthday this year was much happier than last year. A lot of times when a man reaches 40 years old, he would feel nervous and uneasy, as if he's entering another stage. In the past, Joe would seldom have a big birthday party. This time he felt it was very lively and very happy. Joe said there were 7 cats celebrating his birthday, and one of those cats was him, and plus he's been neutered. The reporter asked if this would make Vivian very sad. Joe said she felt the most important thing is that he's neutered. The reporter then asked Joe when he would be using the dragon-phoenix comforter. Joe laughed saying he would use it tonight and then explained that he and Vivian already have a consensus. Their relationship has already surpassed a marriage certificate, and their way of life together at the present stage is the best. For this reason, there's no need to change. If he decides to get married, he would definitely make the news public, but now there's no need for this yet.

Joe joked that Vivian is happier after he's been neutered;
Joe received a dragon-phoenix comforter on his birthday

Vivian lightly kissed Joe, making Joe's heart fill with sweetness.

Two nights ago (4/26), Commercial Radio 903 held the "Cool Valley Best Matching Pair of Lovers Contest" with the hosts of "Cool Valley" Joe Ngai Jan and Jo Kuk Jo Lam and the 5 winning couples. Vivian especially came to the event, too, because two nights ago, it was also Joe's birthday. When the event was over, there was a surprise party and the crowd became very excited when Vivian lightly kissed Joe. Commercial Radio gave him a dragon-phoenix comforter for two people, hinting that they should hurry up and get married. Vivian was sitting in the audience for the entire night watching the event. When Joe was cutting his birthday cake, Vivian was invited on stage to give him a kiss. At first she didn't want to, but it was difficult for her to decline the passion of the audience, so she lightly gave him a kiss. Commercial Radio even gave him a dragon-phoenix comforter for two people, hinting that the two of them should hurry up and get married. The only thing you could see was Joe smiling from ear to ear. The reporter asked Vivian what she gave Joe for his birthday. She said, "The shirt Joe's wearing tonight is what I gave him for his birthday present. Also on the eve of his birthday, we had a birthday party together at home with 7 cats." The reporter asked, "When will you use the dragon-phoenix comforter together?" Vivian said, "Later! I don't have plans yet." Smoothly passing the age of 40 When Joe was hosting his radio program 3 nights ago, Sammy Sam Mei suddenly rolled out a cake into the studio. Joe was surprised and screamed, "I died at age 43 from a heart attack..." The reporter asked him if it's ok to curse himself. Joe said, "My dad and I aren't afraid of saying things that are taboo. Actually I'm 41 years old! I just said this because I was too surprised!" Joe also said when he became 40 years old, he felt kind of worried, but after one year passed, he felt pretty good because everything went smoothly last year. Back when he was studying in the USA, he was used to living a lonely life. In the past, he didn't celebrate his birthday together with a big group of people, but now he understands that celebrating with lots of people is pretty good. He even joked saying that of the 7 cats at home, two of those cats are him and Vivian, and the cats have been neutered. The reporter asked if Joe was also neutered. Joe joked, "I've been neutered by the reporter's pen! The most important thing is that Vivian likes me more after being neutered." Their relationship has already surpassed a marriage certificate and is getting better and better. But in response to Cha Siu Yan, if they get married, they would make the news public. Joe is not against getting married. Jo Kuk gave Joe a foldable bicycle as his birthday gift and also joked that Joe would definitely like it because there were 7 'balls' (gears). One of the winning couples at the event said that they were willing to have a baby because of listening to Joe's radio program, and they brought their baby to the event that night.

Vivian obediently gave a kiss

Joe received a dragon-phoenix comforter and would use it tonight.

Joe Ngai Jan's 41st birthday was two days ago. Being his girlfriend, Vivian is considerate of her boyfriend and would accompany his side. On that night, Joe and Jo Kuk Jo Lam needed to attend the "Cool Valley Best Matching Pair of Lovers Contest" event. Vivian has always been low-key, but she went to the event that night and stayed the entire time to show her support, and she even responded to the request of the audience to publicly give the birthday boy a kiss on the cheek. Joe was very excited during the entire night, saying whatever he wanted and wasn't afraid to say things that were taboo. Shy going on stage to give a kiss The radio station planned a surprise birthday party for Joe, but towards the end of the event, Joe didn't see Jo Kuk Jo Lam, and he was immediately smart saying, "She's going to roll out a cake. Last night on the radio program, I already got scared by a group of people when they suddenly rolled out a birthday cake and almost had to announce that I died at age 43, ha ha." Jo Kuk pushed out a bicycle to give to him as a gift. Then everyone got excited, wanting to invite Vivian on stage. After the birthday boy cut the cake, the audience requested for Vivian to give her boyfriend a kiss. At first Vivian refused, and the host of the event said Joe is the big man tonight and told him to say what he wanted to do. At that moment, Joe pointed to his cheek, and Vivian became obedient and whined to her boyfriend, "I'm only going to give one kiss!" Then she lightly kissed her boyfriend's face. Vivian's obedient behavior made Joe's heart very happy, and his working partner Jo Kuk also gave him a kiss for congratulations. 7 cats cutting the cake The radio station especially gave Joe a dragon-phoenix comforter for two people as his birthday present, publicly rushing them to get married. Joe was on stage and was smiling like he couldn't close his mouth. After the event was over, Vivian quickly left in order to avoid stealing the spotlight. The reporter asked Vivian how she celebrated with her boyfriend on his birthday. She politely said, "Before midnight , I arranged to celebrate together with the 5 cats that Joe loved the most, plus the two of us (Vivian and Joe also think of themselves as being cats), with a total of 7 cats cutting the cake together." The reporter asked her when they would be using the dragon-phoenix comforter. Vivian said, "I'll see when he wants to use it." The reporter asked, "You're not going to use it together?" Vivian said, "I currently don't have any plans." Relationship has surpassed a marriage certificate The shirt Joe was wearing that night at the event was given to him by Vivian as his birthday gift. Joe said, "My 41st birthday came more happily than my 40th birthday. Usually when a man reaches 40 years old, he would feel nervous and uneasy, as if he's entering another stage. In the past, I've never had such a big birthday party. I felt it was very lively and very happy." The reporter asked, "You celebrated your birthday with 7 cats?" Joe said, "Yes, I'm one of those cats, and I'm even neutered too, ha ha." The reporter asked, "Is Vivian very sad about this?" Joe said, "She thinks the most important thing is that I'm neutered." The reporter asked, "When will you use the dragon-phoenix comforter?" Joe said, "I'll use it tonight. Actually, Vivian and I already have a consensus. Our relationship has already surpassed a marriage certificate, and our way of life together at the present stage is the best. For this reason, there's no need to change. When I have decided to get married, I would definitely make the news public. It's not necessary to hide a marriage, and I'm not against getting married, but now there's no need to get married yet."

Vivian gave Joe a kiss on his birthday;
Commercial Radio gave Joe a dragon-phoenix comforter

Vivian and Joe already give people a feeling that they're an old married couple. Joe's girlfriend gave him a kiss in front of everybody. Joe is definitely feeling sweet in his mind.

Commercial Radio held the "Cool Valley Best Matching Pair of Lovers Contest" two nights ago. Joe Ngai Jan and Jo Kuk Jo Lam were the hosts of the event, and Vivian was sitting in the audience giving support to her boyfriend. Two days ago was Joe's 41st birthday. After the event ended, Joe was asked to stay on stage and Jo Kuk and other colleagues rolled out a birthday cake to celebrate his birthday. The birthday boy wasn't afraid to say things that were taboo and joked that he almost died of fright from the surprise at age 43 (he added 2 years to his age). Besides a birthday cake, he was given a bicycle and a dragon-phoenix comforter as his presents. No plans yet to get married During that time, Vivian was invited on stage to cut the cake with Joe. The audience became very excited and wanted Vivian to give her boyfriend a kiss, but Vivian refused and kept shaking her head. In the end, Joe lightly tapped his cheek to show his girlfriend he wanted her to kiss him. Vivian then obediently gave him a sweet kiss. When Vivian was interviewed later, she said she already celebrated with her boyfriend at home the day before. Besides the two of them, there was also their cat friends together with them at the celebration. The reporter asked if they have any plans on getting married after receiving the dragon-phoenix comforter. Vivian said they have no plans yet. No need to avoid the taboo of talking about death Joe said in the past when he was in the USA, he was very lonely on his birthday, but now he has friends who can celebrate together with him on his birthday, making it more lively. He said he had a birthday party at home the day before, and his friends' cats also came to the party. When the reporter said that it was very unlucky for Joe to talk about death on his birthday, Joe said he felt death is something that would certainly happen in life and that there's no need to avoid the taboo of talking about death. The reporter asked if he and Vivian would be using the dragon-phoenix comforter, and Joe unexpectedly said he's already been neutered, joking that the media used their pen to neuter him. The reporter asked if the radio station was hinting that they should rush to get married by giving them a dragon-phoenix comforter. He said he and his girlfriend already had an agreement early on about marriage. Their relationship has already surpassed a marriage certificate, and they exchange messages with their hearts. If one day they decide to get married, they would definitely make the news public and wouldn't keep it a secret.

Vivian wore a low-cut top while celebrating her boyfriend's birthday

Two nights ago (4/26), Vivian wore a low-cut white top to attend the "Cool Valley Best Matching Pair of Lovers Contest" event together with Jo Kuk Jo Lam, and Vivian was also there to celebrate her boyfriend Joe's birthday. Vivian cut the birthday cake with her boyfriend and also gave him a sweet kiss. The scene was very warm! The radio station gave the birthday boy a dragon-phoenix comforter as a present, wishing that both of them get married soon. Vivian revealed that she gave a shirt to her boyfriend for his birthday gift. Earlier, she and her boyfriend and their 3 cats celebrated his birthday together. As for when would she get married, it depends on what her boyfriend wants to do.

Vivian kisses her boyfriend on his 41st birthday

At first, Vivian refused to give Joe a kiss, but in the end, she obediently gave him a kiss. Two nights ago, Joe attended a gathering with the radio listeners and at the same time, celebrated his birthday.

Two nights ago (4/26), Joe Ngai Jan and Jo Kuk Jo Lam, being the hosts of the radio program, attended the "Cool Valley Best Matching Pair of Lovers Contest" event in Mong Kok. It also happened to be Joe's 41st birthday. His girlfriend Vivian especially came to the event to show her support. After the contestants, the 5 couples, had expressed their happiness, the host of the event Cheng Ka Fai told Joe to sing a song, and Joe wanted Jo Kuk to sing, but Jo had left the stage and then she pushed out a bicycle and birthday cake, wanting to celebrate Joe's birthday. After Joe found out, he unexpectedly said, "I already got scared once last night and almost had to announce that I died at age 43." Radio station gave a dragon-phoenix comforter When Jo Kuk pushed out the bike, she said, "This bike has 7 'balls' (gears). You like this the most." Commercial Radio gave Joe a dragon-phoenix comforter as a gift, and the audience became excited and wanted Vivian to go on stage, and they also wanted her to give a kiss to her birthday boyfriend. Vivian shook her head and refused. Joe saw this and tapped his own cheek, and Vivian immediately became obedient and gave him a sweet kiss and said, "Just one kiss." Later, Vivian said the shirt Joe was wearing at the event was the shirt she gave him as a present. The reporter asked her when they would get married and use the dragon-phoenix comforter. Vivian said, "Let me think about it. There are no plans yet." Joe then said, "We can use it tonight. We're enjoying this present stage and have a consensus about marriage. In short, if we get married, we'll make the news public."

Vivian laughs saying she has no plans to get married

Vivian and her boyfriend have been dating for many years but still don't have plans to get married.

Two nights ago (4/26), Commercial Radio 903 hosted the "Cool Valley Best Matching Pair of Lovers Contest" event. Vivian appeared at the event to celebrate her boyfriend Joe's birthday. Joe is the host of the 'Cool Valley' radio program. Earlier, Vivian had given her boyfriend a shirt as a birthday present. She asked her boyfriend to wear this shirt to the event and he complied. As for how she celebrated with her boyfriend, she said on the night before his birthday, she already arranged to celebrate together with the 5 cats that her boyfriend loved the most, and with her and her boyfriend, it's a total of 7 cats (Vivian and Joe think they're cats) celebrating together. Joe described himself as being a neutered cat and said, "Vivian said the most important thing is to be neutered!" The radio station gave Vivian's boyfriend a dragon-phoenix comforter (Chinese newlyweds use this on their bed) for his birthday present and were rushing them to get married. When Vivian was asked when she would get married and when she would be using the dragon-phoenix comforter, Vivian said, "We still don't have any plans. Let's see when he wants to use it!" She even fulfilled the request from the audience to go on stage to cut the cake together with her boyfriend and to give him a kiss. Vivian laughed saying, "Just one kiss!"

Vivian fulfilled the request from the audience wanting her to kiss Joe. (Picture from ent.tom.com) Vivian and her boyfriend have been dating for many years but still don't have plans to get married. (Picture from ent.tom.com)

Vivian showing her shoulder to 'choose a lover;' Joe was intimate with Vivian on stage

Vivian, Joe Ngai Jan, and Jo Kuk Jo Lam. (Picture from ent.sina.com.cn) Vivian showed intimacy towards Joe. (It's Joe's birthday on 4/26. Happy Birthday! ^_^ ) (Picture from ent.sina.com.cn)

On April 26, 2005 at 9:00PM, Vivian Chow, Joe Ngai, and Jo Kuk Jo Lam attended the "Cool Valley Happy Best Matching Pair of Lovers Contest" at the Royal Plaza Hotel in Mongkok. During the event, Vivian and Jo were intimate with Joe, letting Joe be fortunate to hold them on his left and right side. Vivian's image was sexy. Vivian Chow. (Pictures from ent.sina.com.cn)   (Pictures from ent.qq.com)   (Pictures from yule.sohu.com)

Joe's birthday gift from Vivian...
(abridged version of actual article)

Joe said his radio program "Cool Valley" will be having its first public event this month on the 26th. There will be more than 200 radio listeners attending the event. At the event, they will be choosing the best matching pair of lovers among the contestants. Joe said, "That day is my 41st birthday. Vivian might be attending this event, because she always felt she's also part of 'Cool Valley.' I have already received clothes from my girlfriend for my birthday gift. Although I'm most afraid of wearing very colorful clothing, my girlfriend clearly said I had to wear this shirt on my birthday, so therefore I have to obey. After putting on this shirt, I feel that I look like a playboy!"

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